Switching up your schedule can be
unsettling and inconvenient. Life gets in the way, and it can be
tempting to make excuses about why you have to break your habit.
That’s
why some scientists dedicate their careers to figuring out what
influences human behavior. If we know how we’re hardwired to respond to
our own actions, we can set ourselves up for continued success.
Read on for some scientifically proven tips for developing habits that last.
1. Discover what triggers you.
In his book The Power of Habit, author Charles Duhigg describes a simple neurological loop at the core of every habit, a revelation MIT researchers originally discovered. The three steps in the loop are “cue,” “routine” and “reward.”
To
carry out a specific action regularly, you’ll need a reliable reminder
(cue). If you aim to stick to a certain time of day, set an alarm. A
consistent location also helps. Also, places you already frequent will
likely trigger your existing habits (e.g., sitting on the couch triggers
you to want to watch TV).
Other people are some of your biggest
behavioral influences and can be cues, too. Try to surround yourself
with individuals who already behave how you aspire to.
If you
perform on cue over and over, you’ll develop your routine. And once
you’re immersed in your routine, you’ll start to reap the reward that
comes from following through with your intentions.
Read more: 5 Triggers That Make New Habits Stick
2. View your goal as an obligation rather than a desire.
Sometimes
we’re motivated more by the negative repercussions of not doing
something than we are by the possible benefits of doing it.
Tory
Higgins, a professor of psychology and business at Columbia University,
has spent more than 20 years studying what makes people reach their
goals. He is also the director of Columbia’s Motivation Science Center.
He describes two categories of goals: promotional goals and prevention
goals. Promotional goals are ones we hope to achieve, while prevention
goals are ones we are afraid not to achieve.
You can look at the same goal and frame it in a promotional manner or a prevention manner. Prevention is more effective, Higgins has said.
So, tell yourself, “I have to achieve my goal because otherwise I won’t
X.” The first time you carry out the activity necessary for your habit
and goal, it will become your new status quo. You will feel worried that
slipping up at any point in the future will disrupt that status quo.
Conversely,
framing it in a promotion way, such as “I have to achieve my goal
because X good thing will happen if I do,” doesn’t hold you accountable.
If you have an off day, you’ll become discouraged that the “X good
thing” you’re working toward will never materialize.
3. Work on one habit at a time.
Even
if you’ve determined your triggers, or a schedule for carrying out your
new habit, you will be far less likely to keep it up if you try to make
more than one big routine change at a time.
If you’re trying to master more than one habit at a time,
studies have shown that you’ll be far more likely to fail than if you
were just working on one. Know that you don’t need to revamp your entire
life all at once, and you probably won’t be able to, anyway.
4. Stack one habit on top of another.
Keep
in mind that you already have a lot of habits. But don’t worry: They
don’t have to get in the way of the new ones you’re trying to establish.
In
fact, your existing habits can serve as the basis for your future
habits. Certain actions are already second nature to you -- from
showering to brewing a pot of coffee -- because you have developed neural pathways in your brain that take you through the steps.
Experts
suggest that you “stack” your habits. For example, if your goal is to
practice gratitude regularly, when you go to the kitchen to make your
coffee in the mornings, you might think of one thing you’re grateful
for. Why try to carve a new path when you can follow a well-worn one?
5. Don’t confuse your habit with your goal.
In
other words, don’t dwell on what you’re working toward in the long
term. If you successfully perform your habitual task, consider that a
win in and of itself.
This is the “routine” part of the
neurological habit loop. You can’t expect to see dramatic fitness
results after only going to the gym a handful of times, and the same
goes for any other type of goal and habit. Focus on the ritual, rather
than the result. Over time, the process will become second nature, and
your desired outcome will follow.
6. Minimize decision-making.
Making choices is tiresome. There’s even a term for the exhaustion you feel after making too many: Decision fatigue.
One study published in the Journal of Personality and Social Psychology
found that participants demonstrated reduced self-control -- less
physical stamina, reduced persistence in the face of failure and more
procrastination -- after making several decisions about what types of
goods to buy.
If your goal is to read more, for instance, create a
short list of books or articles you’re interested in, then rank them in
order of which you want to read first. Simply wandering over to your
bookshelf every time you’re ready to crack open a book will make you
feel overwhelmed.
Streamlining your routine and narrowing your
choices -- in as many aspects of your life as possible -- will save you
the mental energy you’ll need for the activity you’re trying to turn
into a habit.
7. Reward yourself.
This
doesn’t mean you need to provide yourself with external rewards such as
small personal gifts (although you might find that effective). Your
brain chemistry has its own reward system.
Every time you check
off a task on your to-do list, your brain secretes the hormone dopamine,
which corresponds with pleasure, learning and motivation. This is what
makes you feel good about yourself when you do something you intended to
do.
In pursuit of more dopamine, you’ll be driven to perform that same task again. Success begets success.
But keep in mind that little successes build up
to big ones, as Stanford researcher B.J. Fogg has found. For instance,
if your goal is better time management, commit to working on a project
for just 10 minutes a day at first. If you set the bar at a height you
can consistently clear, you’ll be more likely to succeed, get that
dopamine rush again and keep your momentum going.
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